The Ubuntu group was born out of witnessing the imbalance that often exists in nonprofits: with so much emphasis on the organization’s mission to help others, volunteers and staff are vulnerable to overwhelm and self-neglect. As a result, they do not manage to stay in touch with the real life concerns of one another either. Burn out, compassion fatigue, and feelings of isolation are a likely result.
With chronic busy-ness currently plaguing many of us, the challenge to stay in touch with ourselves and with others is not limited exclusively to the realm of nonprofits. In today’s society it is easy for any of us to lose sight of the reality that in order to be able to be caring toward others we must take good care of ourselves.
Busy lifestyles and everyday stressors often interfere with and limit our capacity for relating. Tense muscles, shallow breathing and unexpressed emotions take a toll on our wellbeing. Unable to perceive the sensations within our own bodies, we compensate by over-using our intellect or run on “auto-pilot”. In this disconnected, deadened and ungrounded state we lose our ability to nurture a deep, rich inner world; we diminish our capacity to maintain deep, intimate relationships with others.
Contact and connection with others experienced in a safe environment allows us to lower our defenses, drop down into our body, feel our feelings and re-connect to our self. This comes back around and increases our ability to resonate more with others. By receiving the support, empathy and non-judgment we need on an ongoing basis, our ability to respond compassionately toward others expands.
Why we start each group with bodywork?
To have more honest, heart-felt conversations we start each Ubuntu Group with Trauma Releasing Exercises (TRE). Here is a interview (conducted in South Africa) featuring David Berceli, creator of TRE, where he explains his process behind the exercises.
Here are some additional thoughts from Barbara on why we start each group with body work.
What is Ubuntu?
seeking to support and honor being authentic, being alive, being together and being ourselves
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